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In memory of dear Matt  / Jo-Ann Pacenta Lauren's Mom (Mom of an angel )  Read >>
In memory of dear Matt  / Jo-Ann Pacenta Lauren's Mom (Mom of an angel )
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IN LOVING MEMORY OF MATT  / Carol Carico (none)  Read >>
IN LOVING MEMORY OF MATT  / Carol Carico (none)

Holding you close in thoughts and prayers as we remember your Precious AngelMatt on his heavenly anniversary. Pray the day goes peacefully for you and you receive many signs from your angel. A candle will burn in memory of your angel. I am so very sorry for your loss. you have made a beautifup site for your son. And his lil girl is beautiful. I also lost a son Michael killed in 2002 by a red light runner.
Love & Hugs
Carol

Angel Michael's Mom

www.myangelsonmichael.com

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In Loving Memory of William  / Carol PIzzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )  Read >>
In Loving Memory of William  / Carol PIzzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )

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Always in my Prayers  / Lydia Edwards (Family Friend )  Read >>
Always in my Prayers  / Lydia Edwards (Family Friend )

Dear Jane & Family,

I can only imagine how hard today is for you. Well, I don't even know if I can imagine something like this.  I do know, however, that I can pray.  And, I do. All the time.

I just wanted to stop by to let you all know that I'm out here offering the only thing I can, my prayers and my love.

God Bless you always!

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Its almost time...  / TIFFANY JACKSON (FRIEND)  Read >>
Its almost time...  / TIFFANY JACKSON (FRIEND)

matt..we have been thinking of you a lot lately..gosh we miss you..johnny, matt , and i saw mama jane and matti oh and crystal on sat. she is looking like you more and more everytime we see her..she is just soo sweet..lil matt just loves her..i can't believe it is almost time again..and all of our hearts break all over again more so than normal.but i have already told my boss..and they said no problem...bc we don't get to get that way very much to see everyone as it is..i do what i can when i can to see yall..we miss you matt...and we love you..R~I~P angel keep a look out for us all and esp your family...we love you and miss you...

                                            the jacksons

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Thinking of you Matt  / Jenny Tavendale Mum To Ross   Read >>
Thinking of you Matt  / Jenny Tavendale Mum To Ross

 

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Forever missed  / Dottie Angel Mom To Matthew Hagan ^i^ (Angel Friend )  Read >>
Forever missed  / Dottie Angel Mom To Matthew Hagan ^i^ (Angel Friend )

I just wanted to stop and say thank you for cisiting my son Mat's page. I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. It has been 5 years for me so far, and the memories never stop. I still miss him and love him so much. Let your walk take you where it has to. It is the only way to cope. We will NEVER forget. Your angel is as handsome as mine. Thank you for sharing his beautiful life with me.

Dottie Angel Mom to Matthew Hagan

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Thinking of you  / Jennifer (Friend)  Read >>
Thinking of you  / Jennifer (Friend)

Hey Matt!  I have been wondering what happend with the trial so I visited this site.  I cant believe what I read!  Some "friends"  Thats so messed up!  I wish that we could go back in time and have that day play out so diffrently so you would not have meet them that night.  You did not deserve this.  I ball everytime I see a picture of your daughter at your grave kissing it.  It breaks my heart that she will never get to meet her daddy and that you will never be able to hold her and experiense all the wonderful things of being a parent.  You would have been a great dad!  The last time I saw you I was pregnant with my first son.  I have had another one since then.  When I come to this site it makes me realize that I need to cherish every moment with my children because you never know when it will be your last.  We all love you and miss you.  Your family sure did know you Matt.  They have explained you to the "T".  I wish you could be here and I wish your family nothing but the best! 

Love always,

Jennifer

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My apologies  / Everyday Visitor   Read >>
My apologies  / Everyday Visitor
I would like to clarify my condolence because I certainly didn't mean to come across in a negative way.  I do visit this site everyday and I truly have missed hearing from the family and seeing pics of Mattie, etc.  I said that I understood that you all were trying to get on with your lives but still I would like to hear from you.  Please forgive me for coming across in a hurtful manner because that was certainly not my intention.  I have thought about this and when another visitor called my condolence negative I knew I had to try and clear this up. I have been through the horror of losing someone which is still raw to me.  I could never have been as strong as you have been Jane and with all the other tragdies in your life I just could not have endured what you have.  Please accept my apologies and I wish nothing but good things for you in the future.  I hope you get everything you deserve in life.  Close
All the time visitor  / Kim Mattox (None)  Read >>
All the time visitor  / Kim Mattox (None)

Jane, I just want you to know I feel your presence everytime I visit this site.  I have been visiting before Matti was born and I always feel the love you have for Matt and for your other children.  No matter what anyone says.  People need to understand you have other obligations and that does not mean you neglect this site.  I believe you put your heart and soul into this website and it shows it is just a beautiful site to visit.  I just wanted to give you some positive feedback instead of negative.  By the way you handled that negative posting very well. 

I also vote almost daily for Matt's website on  Forever teen Angels

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HIS FAMILY IS ALWAYS HERE  / Jane Jones (Mother)  Read >>
HIS FAMILY IS ALWAYS HERE  / Jane Jones (Mother)
I know you probably didn't mean it like it sounded when you labeled this where is his family.  Obviously you have never been through something like this so I am going to respond.  We are here everyday, we may not light a candle or write anything but we hear his voice and look at his pictures.  There is an updated picture of Matti on here and I will put some more on here when I get the time.  This is a precious site that takes hours and hours to plan and work on to get it right.  It is not something thrown together it comes from my heart.  I work 11 hours a day, try to spend as much time as I can with Matti, my children and my fiance' so I don't have a lot of time sometimes.  I want to update it but right now I am thinking about how I want the next layout to be so when I decide to do it I will until then I come here for comfort of my son.  There is NEVER a day I don't relive this whether I go on with my life or not.  The next time you would like to know something though try emailing me through this site and give me your name if you have become to think of us as your family.

Missing my son today and everyday,
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Where is his family?  / Everyday Reader   Read >>
Where is his family?  / Everyday Reader
Please respond to this e-mail.  Let us readers know how things are going with the family and put some recent pics of Matti on the site.  As an everyday reader I feel I have lost part of my own family by not hearing from you at least once in a while.  I'm sure you are trying to get on with your lives but you have made many friends that want and need to know how you are.  Close
just keeping in touch  / Pamela Brough (passer by on site )  Read >>
just keeping in touch  / Pamela Brough (passer by on site )
hi to all the family just a short message from england again saying your still in my thoughts and hope matti the baby is still doing well would love to see pictures of her now keep smiling Close
Remember / Curious (passerby)  Read >>
Remember / Curious (passerby)
Wish you would post recent pics of Mattie.  I would like to see how she is growing up and looking more and more like her dad.  When will the next court date be for Mike Hill?  I have been keeping up with this site ever since you started it and you all have become like family.  I miss hearing from you all. Close
Curious / Everyday Visitor (passerby)  Read >>
Curious / Everyday Visitor (passerby)
When will you be posting the results of your visit with Shawn? Close
just keeping up to date  / Pamela Brough (passer by on site )  Read >>
just keeping up to date  / Pamela Brough (passer by on site )
its been a few months since i been on the site but was relieved to read someone had seen justice and sent this person to jail for this murder i hope your all keeping well this site is keeping him alive hope you dont mind me keeping in touch cause some how dont think matt would mind too much hope everyone involved in this murder gets what they deserve its just a pity this world does not do life for a life xx Close
Not Fair  / Eileen Duncan (mother of Amanda Kates murdered 6-8-06 )  Read >>
Not Fair  / Eileen Duncan (mother of Amanda Kates murdered 6-8-06 )

The guy that pled guilty to murdering my daughter at the precious age of 21 was only given 15-40 and 10-20 for shooting her fiance to run consecutively....now this asshole wants me to come visit him, he sends me letters which violates a no contact order.  I know how you feel and where you are....why our children....and why is the justice system so leinient on them and treats the victims as more of criminals then the ones that took our children away..I have something that I am going to add that was sent to me....it is below...and remember I am here should you need to talk.

♦ Unless you have lost a child, no you don’t understand my pain, so please do not say so. Even family and friends, as much as they loved your child, still have no idea what the parent is going through.

♦ Event’s such as weddings, anniversaries, holiday, birthdays, and other events and gatherings are incredibly hard to deal with, and may be for months, years, possibly forever. Never judge, or become impatient. The grieving parents know when they are ready for events such as this. Family and friends need to be understanding, and realize life as it was before the child died, no longer exists. Therefore you will find grieving parents no longer wish to celebrate as they did in the past when their child was alive. New traditions are often made, as the old ones are too hard to continue on with. Some may choose to not celebrate at all.

♦ The day that your loved ones child died, the parents life as they knew It died too. Life will never be the same for the family, especially for the parents, so don’t expect It too be.

♦ Grief is an individual process. There is no right or wrong way. No time limit, and the grieving parent will never get over it.

♦ People may expect that grief will lessen in an orderly fashion when, especially for parents of deceased children, grief often worsens over time or recurs, dramatically and painfully, years after the loss.

♦ Grief counseling, therapy, and support groups are statistically not a commonly used option for grieving parents. If needed they are very useful, but again, each parent will grieve differently. Outside help is often found in friends, family, or the community. Do not insist your loved one seeks outside help.

♦ Respecting a grieving parents wishes when decisions are to be made surrounding the deceased child, is crucial! Many parents feel all they have left is the planning of their child’s funeral, choosing where their child will be laid to rest, and planning and attending events scheduled in honor of their child. Often family members feel they are experiencing a great loss too, and feel left out, but unfortunately the grieving parents wishes and needs must come first. Others must respect those decisions.

♦ A change in a grieving parents personality is normal, and can be permanent. It is normal for depression to set in, and is only dangerous if it is having profound affects on their personal life. Example, no longer able to work due to lack of sleep or interest, substance abuse, physically harming themselves or others, noticeable decrease in personal hygiene and care for other children, no longer wanting to be with spouse. A drop in mood, or energy is not something to be alarmed by.

♦ Family members should not look to the grieving parent for support. Loved ones often feel helpless and alone and forgotten about after a child in the family has passed away. Grief is one of the #1 stressors an individual can endure in their lifetime, especially when it involves losing a child. Turn to other family members for support. Often times the grieving parent does not want to talk, and will want to be left alone, mainly due to added stress when exposed to the demand of family and friends.

♦ The grieving parent needs support, respect, and understanding. It is crucial that family and friends shelter their loved ones from any unnecessary stress and trauma if at all possible. It is unfortunately rather common for persons in the grieving process to be the victim of sudden illness, as serious as a heart attack, or even death due to the level of stress.

♦ Family and friends may have to step in and help care for any children, such as siblings of the deceased child. Caring for young children during the initial stages of the grieving process can be nearly impossible at times.


♦ It is said that in a time such as this, the loss of ones child, it will quickly be made apparent who is going to be supportive and who is not. This is the hardest event your loved one will most likely endure in their lifetime, and it is often difficult for others to understand and continue to stay supportive. Remember, the grieving parent will never be able to put into words what they are feeling, so except that you will never understand, and decide if you are able to still be supportive.

♦ Their child may have passed away, but they are still that child’s parent.

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You should have been here with us  / Jane Jones (mom)  Read >>
You should have been here with us  / Jane Jones (mom)
Your brother had his going away party this weekend and of course the biggest thing missing was you.  We will never get use to having family functions without you.  You were always the life of the party with your jokes and smiles.  We miss that so much.  i do want you to know though that your sisters have learned to fill your shoes pretty well.  They were doing karoke and you know singing is not one of our best traits.  It was so funny, Gerald and I were dying laughing.  Your friends were there to support Rick for you which I thought was so sweet.  They love him like you use to.  Please watch over him for me I am so proud of him for going into the military but also scared for him.  Just please keep him safe.  We need him to keep your sisters straight since you're not here..but you know they're a handful..HAHA.  Son our hearts still have the hurt of you not being here and sometimes it feels bad to have fun without you but we know that is what you would want us to do.  You wouldn't want us to be sad.  I can hear what you would tell us now.....but just know in our laughter and good times are ALWAYS the memory of you and things we all did together.  We love you and we miss you and one day we will all be able to be together again.  Until then remember you are always in our hearts and soul.  We love you.  Mom Close
Another Valentines Day without you  / Jane Jones (Mom)  Read >>
Another Valentines Day without you  / Jane Jones (Mom)
Son how much I wish you were here to buy Matti her Valentines Day gift.  I made sure though she had some stuff from her daddy.  You know I would never let you down.  Her and I are going to take you some flowers out to your grave for Valentines.  I wish we could do so much more.  I miss you so much.  The talks and jokes we use to share they are never far from my heart but they make me miss you so much.  I need you laughter around at times but I know you have had alot to do with making sure my life worked out just fine.  You always took care of me when you were here and you have never felled to watch over me since you've been gone.  Your brother is having his going away party this weekend, you should have been able to be there with us to celebrate but fate didn't allow it.  I know one day I will understand it all but right now I know I miss you and this isn't fair.  I love you with all my heart and I always will.  Happy Valentines Day baby and give Lil Matthew a hug from his grandma. Close
Just passing through  / Ashley Jones Friend Of Adam Lutz   Read >>
Just passing through  / Ashley Jones Friend Of Adam Lutz

My heart still goes out to all of your friends and family.  I know it is a hard process to go through and once you think you have taken a step forward and having an easier day or week or month it's time for court and you take ten steps back.  Just remember that no matter how many times you have to relive that night it is some what worth it in the end.  To get some kind of justice for Matt!  You will all be in my thoughts and prayers as you are faced with trial and I hope everything goes your way.  Matt has a beautiful daughter and she looks just like him.  I am glad you all have her to carry on with.  It's times like these that family means the most, make sure you keep that special bond you all have now!  =)  The site is still beautiful as ever and you have done so much great work to it.  Keep it up!  May Justice Prevail For Matt, Adam, and all the other murdered victims. RIP!

Ashley

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